☞ Where are you using touch to just "get to" something else?

☞ Where are you still viewing your sexuality and pleasure as someone else's idea of what it "should" be or what it can/cannot entail?

☞ How are you checking out of pleasure with your partner in a way to avoid deep intimacy and presence?

☞ What are you afraid you will see about yourself if you fully allowed your own definition of pleasure?

☞ What are you afraid to see about your partner(s)?

☞ What are you afraid your partner will see about you?

☞ Where are you {yourself and partner(s) or past partners} not going all in on your partnership?

☞ What wisdom/truth/pleasure are you not allowing to come through from pussy/cock and soul?

☞ How do you keep your partner(s) from fully holding space for you, your emotions, and your sexual expression?

☞ How do you keep YOURSELF from fully holding that space for your emotions and sexual expression?

☞ How do you keep yourself from holding that space for your partner(s)?