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Wild Jungle Initiation into The Ancient Feminine for Women Who Howl at the Moon



The Initiation {2/4}:

your body is the way

...Creation comes from an overflow, so you have to learn to intake, to imbibe, to nourish yourself and not be afraid of fullness... Permit yourself to flow and overflow, allow for the rise in temperature, all the expansions and intensifications. Something is always born of excess: great art was born of great terrors, great loneliness, great inhibitions, instabilities, and it always balances them...
— Anaïs Nin

You want the bad news first?

Here goes…

You’ve let them tame you

I know, fuck me, right?

But here’s the good news:

You can, in this moment, choose to shed the shackles that have encased your Womanhood and reclaim your most Sovereign Erotic Self

And you can do it with LESS effort and MORE pleasure than you probably think possible.

I know, I know… if it’s so “easy”, why haven’t you {and every other woman out there} been able to do it yet?

Well, here’s the thing…

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We’ve been taught that the Feminine is dead

But this is, in fact, one of the greatest lies ever told

Because it is the one that has caused us to now take part in our own subjugation

Which means the puppet masters barely even have to lift a finger to tame us anymore…

We’ve taken over the job…

And now we reinforce our own taming every day.

Just… DAMN.

That’s what she said

I was talking to one of my best friends about how frequently women talk shit to our bodies, denying Her… refusing Her… vilifying Her.

I mentioned how it’s an everyday occurrence for pretty much every woman I work with.

But my friend said I was wrong… DEAD WRONG

It’s more like every hour, she said… Sometimes multiple times an hour.

Holy hell, Goddesses.

How did we come to this?

At what point did we lose our freedom and begin shackling ourselves?

My friend could recall the very year it happened for her {she was eight}.

And you?

When did you lose the Wild and first contribute to your own Taming?


For me, it was when I was pulled from sports by an idiotic old school doctor who couldn’t deign to send me to rehab but, instead, told my mom and coaches I couldn’t play at all for at least a year.

And then we moved across the country and I knew no one {yeah, as an INTROVERTED CREATIVE, that was pretty much like death}.

And it was then that I realized I had no idea how to be in my body if I wasn’t an athlete.

Sports were pretty much the only thing that helped me “touch down” as a human and when they were gone, I kind of floated away.

I became even more creative {yay} and even more introverted {uhhhh…}.

…And I became waaaaaay more aware of how {ahem} UNIQUE I was compared to other kids.

And so I began muting myself to not stand out QUITE so much.

I still stood out, I am quite the little rebel soul, after all.

But I dumbed down my intelligence and kept my existential musings {mostly} to myself.

that was when I started to lose touch with the Wild.

And then, you know what happens?


the Muse forgets where you live

Or rather, you forget how to reach Her

Because you’ve become so numbed out to your own existence that your creativity becomes… brittle, stale, and- dare I say- DRIED THE FUCK OUT.

So you keep trying harder to recapture your Wild Ways, to FEEL the Muse moving through you… only to feel Her drifting even further away.

And then, one day, you just don’t mind the Muse being gone as much as you used to...

I mean, you have obligations and mundane bullshit to occupy your time.

And you’ve become a fucking boss at pretending that you're free.

You even have a lover who, at one time, kinda sorta maybe looked at you like you were magic.

I mean, at least you THINK they did…

{Is your soul weeping yet?}


Until there comes a time…

when your soul begins to howl in the night

demanding that you shake off those shackles

…And Remember Who The Fuck You Are.

Because you have forgotten what it means to be free.

But now that you “have it all”…

You’re afraid to LOSE it all.

So you start to think that maybe- just maybe- it’s easier to keep tucking your tail…

And pretending that you are not, in fact, a Direct Descendent of The Ancient Feminine…

And that you do not, in fact, have a divine birthright of freedom etched across your fucking soul.

But you’re here.

So you KNOW that shit isn’t gonna cut it any longer.

Because you will not- CANNOT- keep doing business as usual.

Your body and soul won’t allow it.

And so you must dive into the depths of what it means to FEEL…

Which is where you will find your everything.

Because your body is not only a portal for the sacred…

She is The Way Home.


Many people die with their music still in them. Why is this so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out.
— Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr

OK, phew. That was a lot of excavating and looking at our own Current State of Affairs.

I’m so happy you’re still with me.

Because it means your SOUL is in the lead…

And your Primal Pussy Power is {Re}Birthing from the fire.


So let’s continue listening to the Call of the Wilds, shall we?

Let’s dive into {PP} Part 3: Your Erotic Truth

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Here’s to Your Untaming,